
Rebuild Trust
Healing after betrayal is possible and it starts here

When infidelity or another breach of trust shatters a relationship, both partners can feel lost. The partner who was hurt may wonder if safety can ever be restored. The partner who broke trust may feel deep remorse, guilt, or fear that nothing they do will ever be enough.
The Rebuild Trust Intensive is not about forcing a decision to stay together. It’s for couples who still see the possibility of repair — who feel there may be hope for reconnection, even if the way forward isn’t clear yet. If you’re committed to giving your relationship a real chance at healing, this program offers step-by-step structure and guidance to stabilize emotions and reestablish trust.
What You’ll Gain
A clear roadmap for healing after betrayal
Emotional safety to process hurt while reducing blame and shutdown
Practical tools for transparency, accountability, and rebuilding safety
Support for both partners — the one who was hurt, and the one seeking to demonstrate trustworthiness again
A renewed foundation for honesty, intimacy, and shared purpose
How We’ll Do the Work
Rebuilding trust takes both clear structure and deep emotional repair. That’s why I use two proven frameworks side by side: the Gottman Trust Revival Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy’s Attachment Injury Resolution Model. Together, they balance accountability and transparency with healing and reconnection.

Gottman’s trust Revival Method
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Atone
“Taking Responsibility, Step by Step”
This stage is about full responsibility, accountability, and openness. The partner who broke trust demonstrates reliability through consistent actions and transparency, while the partner who was hurt is given space to express grief, anger, and confusion safely. The goal is not quick forgiveness but creating a foundation of honesty and emotional safety.
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Attune
“Turning Toward Each Other Again”
Here the focus shifts to turning toward each other again. Couples rebuild their emotional intimacy through small daily moments of connection, constructive communication, and practicing empathy. Underneath, this stage is about tending to the attachment wound — finding ways to share deeper feelings and respond with care, so closeness can begin to return.
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Attach
“Building a Stronger Future Together”
Couples reestablish intimacy and create a new vision for their relationship. This includes rituals of connection, shared goals, and physical closeness built on safety. Partners practice aligning their actions with their deepest values — honesty, integrity, and love — so that trust is not just restored but strengthened for the future.

EFT Attachment Injury Resolution
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Acknowledge the Wound
“Speaking the Hurt Out Loud”
The injured partner shares the depth of their pain — not just anger, but also the fear, sadness, and loss of safety that betrayal creates. The partner who broke trust listens with openness and empathy, validating without defensiveness.
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Engage in the Repair
“Showing Up with Care”
The partner who broke trust responds with accountability and emotional presence, offering comfort rather than explanation. This step is about beginning to risk again. Proving through presence that trustworthiness is possible and authentic.
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Bonding Point
“Finding Safe Haven Together”
In a guided process, both partners move into a moment of connection where both partners feels safe, heard, and valued. These conversations go beyond forgiveness. They restore trust, resolution, and secure bonding. The betrayal is not erased, it is understood within a story of intimacy, healing, and renewed trust.

Why We Use Both Approaches
Healing after betrayal takes more than just structure, and more than just emotion — it takes both. That’s why this program integrates two proven frameworks:
The Gottman Trust Revival Method works from the outside in — creating safety through clear steps, transparency, and reliable actions. When structure is in place, emotions can settle and trust begins to regrow.
EFT Attachment Injury Repair works from the inside out — helping partners share the deeper fears and hurts beneath anger, and respond with empathy and care. When emotions are healed, safety becomes real and lasting.
Program Structure
10 sessions (90 minutes each) over ~12 weeks
Individual check-ins with each partner as needed
Emergency coaching access for moments of relationship crisis
Rebuilding Trust exercises, scripts, guided practices
$2,800 complete program (flexible payment options available)
Why This Program Matters
Betrayal leaves both partners in pain — one carrying wounds of hurt and mistrust, the other often carrying shame and fear. Without guidance, conversations can spiral, stall, or retraumatize. With structure and support, couples can move through accountability → reconnection → renewed commitment.
You don’t need to have all the answers right now — you just need a place to begin rebuilding trust with guidance and support.